Read Online15 Attributes of Agape Love
A Scripture-rich 1 Corinthians 13 homework study for practicing patient, kind, selfless, truthful, and persevering love.
Matthew Black
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- 15 Attributes of Agape Love
- 50 Questions to Ask Your Wife
- Appreciation List
- Biblical Submission
- Communication and Conflict in Marriage
- Defining Love from 1 Corinthians 13
- Depending on God
- Expectations in Marriage
- How to Be a Bargain for Your Mate
- It Matters Whom You Marry
- It’s Not About Marriage
- Marriage Enrichment Assessment
- Marriage Enrichment: Loving as God Loves
- Marriage Homework
- Marriage Preparation Inventory
- Questionnaire for Wife and Mother
- Questionnaire on Expectations for Married Couples
- Rate Your Marriage
- Respect for Husband Quiz
- The Crazy Cycle
- The Five Love Languages
- The Five Love Languages Test
- Trust Questionnaire
- Understanding Her Negatives as Needs
- Weekly Heart Check-In for Couples
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Read Online50 Questions to Ask Your Wife
Conversation prompts designed to help a husband know, understand, encourage, and care for his wife more thoughtfully.
Read OnlineAppreciation List
A one-page exercise for recognizing and expressing gratitude for a spouse’s character, efforts, and care.
Read OnlineBiblical Submission
A two-page Scripture study clarifying the meaning, purpose, and limits of submission in Christian marriage.
Read OnlineCommunication and Conflict in Marriage
A biblical guide to understanding conflict, replacing destructive habits, and repairing conversations with truth, self-control, tenderness, and forgiveness.
Matt Black
Read OnlineDefining Love from 1 Corinthians 13
A thirteen-page study applying the qualities of biblical love to attitudes, words, and actions in marriage.
Matthew S. Black
Read OnlineDepending on God
A worksheet for recognizing codependency and pursuing mature, loving relationships shaped by loyalty to God.
Read OnlineExpectations in Marriage
A biblical guide to uncovering hidden assumptions, distinguishing desires from demands, and learning to love your spouse with patience, humility, and covenant faithfulness.
Matt Black
Read OnlineHow to Be a Bargain for Your Mate
A brief marriage assignment encouraging gratitude, service, affection, faithfulness, and personal responsibility.
Read OnlineIt Matters Whom You Marry
A thoughtful article for evaluating how a future spouse will shape spiritual, emotional, physical, mental, and relational life.
Rebecca VanDoodewaard
Read OnlineIt’s Not About Marriage
A chapter-length study that redirects marital hope from circumstances and performance to Christ and his kingdom.
Matt Black
Read OnlineMarriage Enrichment Assessment
A red-, yellow-, and green-light assessment for married couples to evaluate spiritual health, expectations, conflict, direction, maturity, counsel, and commitment.
Matthew Black
Read OnlineMarriage Enrichment: Loving as God Loves
A comprehensive 1 Corinthians 13 study of sacrificial love, communication, forgiveness, and Christlike growth in marriage.
Matthew Black
Read OnlineMarriage Homework
A collection of eight pages of practical assignments for communication, love, service, conflict, and spiritual growth.
Read OnlineMarriage Preparation Inventory
A detailed premarital questionnaire covering backgrounds, expectations, faith, communication, finances, family, and intimacy.
Matt Black
Read OnlineQuestionnaire for Wife and Mother
A reflective questionnaire about marriage, motherhood, home life, spiritual priorities, and areas for growth.
Read OnlineQuestionnaire on Expectations for Married Couples
A practical questionnaire for married couples to compare expectations about home responsibilities, family, intimacy, children, church, technology, and finances.
Read OnlineRate Your Marriage
A three-page inventory for evaluating friendship, communication, conflict, roles, intimacy, and shared spiritual life.
Read OnlineRespect for Husband Quiz
A three-page reflection tool for examining attitudes, words, and actions related to biblical respect in marriage.
Read OnlineThe Crazy Cycle
A worksheet for recognizing escalating conflict and replacing bitterness with tenderness, kindness, and forgiveness.
Read OnlineThe Five Love Languages
A summary worksheet for understanding common ways spouses give and receive love.
Based on the work of Dr. Gary Chapman
Read OnlineThe Five Love Languages Test
A short assessment for identifying the forms of care and affection that communicate love most clearly.
Based on the work of Dr. Gary Chapman
Read OnlineTrust Questionnaire
An eleven-page assessment for identifying breaches of trust and planning honest, patient steps toward rebuilding it.
Adapted from Paul David Tripp · Used by permission of Crossway
Read OnlineUnderstanding Her Negatives as Needs
A worksheet helping husbands listen without defensiveness, discern concerns beneath hard words, and respond with honoring action.
Matt Black
Read OnlineWeekly Heart Check-In for Couples
A weekly conversation guide for gratitude, spiritual practices, emotional regulation, affection, honesty, and shared prayer.
Matt Black