Regeneration: The New Birth
Christians are God’s workmanship, literally his masterpiece. God’s fingerprints are all over his children. One of the most important books in the Bible defending the need for every Christian to display a life transformed by God’s touch is the book of 1 John.
This is a letter written by the Apostle John to churches that were confused about what makes a person a Christian, or “born again.” John’s encouragement in the book is that people can know during their lives that they truly are “born of God” and that they will be accepted by him on the day when we see him face to face (1 John 2:29; 3:9; 4:7; 5:1, 3, 18).
What Is Regeneration?
What does it mean to be “born of God” or “born again”? Theologians call it regeneration. Regeneration is a miraculous act of God in your heart through which he imparts new spiritual life to you. This is sometimes called “being born again,” using the language of John 3:3–8. John talks about those to whom Christ gave the power to become children of God: they “were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God” (John 1:13).
This sovereign work of God in regeneration was also predicted in the prophecy of Ezekiel. Through him, God promised a time in the future when he would give new spiritual life to his people:
Ezekiel 36:26–27 — “And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes and be careful to obey my rules.”
This promise is for you, and it is essential if you are going to experience meaningful growth and change in your marriage.
There is a time and place in our lives when God wakes us up. He gives us a spiritual new birth, a new beginning, and a new nature. The Apostle Paul likens regeneration to a spiritual resurrection from the dead. He says that we “were dead in the trespasses and sins” in which we once walked, but God, because of his great love, made us alive together with Christ and raised us up with him (Ephesians 2:1–6).
God’s Spirit takes up residence in the human heart, giving the person a new nature, a new way of thinking, a new perspective—indeed, a whole new worldview.
John Piper defines regeneration as “the spiritual transformation in a person, brought about by the Holy Spirit, that brings the individual from being spiritually dead to become a spiritually alive human being.”
The Apostle John wrote his first epistle, or letter, to give various marks or evidences that a person is really and truly a Christian. There were people in his day called Gnostics who taught several erroneous things. They taught that Jesus was not God and did not become the Christ until just before he went to the cross. They taught that he was actually corrupted with a sinful nature. They believed that the physical body could never be redeemed and that only the spirit or soul was good. They concluded that you could act however you wanted and still be a Christian.
John writes 1 John to demonstrate that a radical transformation occurs in the life of all God’s people. His purpose is to give each of God’s children joy and assurance in knowing the marks of God’s work in their lives. There are fifteen of these marks, or “fingerprints,” of God in every believer’s life.
Evidences of True Salvation
The essential point of 1 John is that there are certain evidences and marks by which you will definitely know whether you have experienced the new birth. John Piper summarizes the purpose of 1 John by compiling the reasons John gives for writing the letter:
“Summing up all the reasons for writing 1 John goes like this: I am writing because you are true believers, but there are deceivers in your midst, and I want you to be rock-solid confident in your present possession of eternal life as regenerate children of God, so that you are not drawn away after sin. And if this letter has that effect my joy will be complete. So at the heart of his reason for writing is the desire to help them know they are born again—that they now have new spiritual life. Eternal life.” —John Piper
The marks that follow are evidences of the Holy Spirit. They are like God’s fingerprints on our lives. Are these fingerprints of God in your life?
Fingerprints 1–5
1 – I Fellowship with God
Every Christian has within a spiritual compulsion and hunger for God’s holy presence. It is like food. To look into the face of Jesus through prayer and the Word is a thrill.
1 John 1:3–4 — “That which we have seen and heard we proclaim also to you, so that you too may have fellowship with us; and indeed our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son Jesus Christ. And we are writing these things so that our joy may be complete.”
2 – I Can No Longer Live Comfortably in Sin
If spiritual intimacy is like food for the Christian, then sin is like cancer. All you want to do as a child of God is get rid of it and keep it as far away as possible.
1 John 1:6 — “If we say we have fellowship with him while we walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth.”
1 John 3:9 — “No one born of God makes a practice of sinning, for God’s seed abides in him; and he cannot keep on sinning, because he has been born of God.”
1 John 5:18 — “We know that everyone who has been born of God does not keep on sinning, but he who was born of God protects him, and the evil one does not touch him.”
3 – I Obey God from My Heart
Our feelings and circumstances change. As true Christians, we choose to glorify God no matter what we feel like.
1 John 2:3 — “And by this we know that we have come to know him, if we keep his commandments.”
1 John 2:29 — “If you know that he is righteous, you may be sure that everyone who practices righteousness has been born of him.”
4 – I Hunger for God’s Word
True Christians hunger for God and his Word like a newborn baby craves milk (1 Peter 2:2–3). Before a person is saved, there may be a passing hunger, but once a person is born again, the hunger is unquenchable. As John writes, “You are strong, and the word of God abides in you, and you have overcome the evil one” (1 John 2:14).
5 – I Live Separate from the World
If you are a believer, you have rendered yourself dead to this world of sin. Specifically, you do not live for, and thereby worship, the world’s pleasures, possessions, and pride. The world offers a false happiness. We know that true happiness is found in our holy fellowship with Christ.
1 John 2:15–17 — “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world. And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.”
1 John 5:4 — “For everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith.”
D. L. Moody put it best: “The man that is popular with the world is not a friend of Jesus. You cannot serve two masters. The world hates Christ, and if you are a friend of the world you cannot be a friend of His. You may be sure that something is wrong with you when everybody is your friend.”
Fingerprints 6–10
6 – I Confess Christ Boldly to the World
True Christians openly confess that Jesus Christ is the only way to heaven. A true believer not only believes that Jesus of Nazareth is the Christ, the Ancient of Days come in human flesh to redeem guilty sinners, but also has a deep desire to confess the person of Jesus Christ boldly.
1 John 2:23 — “No one who denies the Son has the Father. Whoever confesses the Son has the Father also.”
Matthew 10:32–33 — “So everyone who acknowledges me before men, I also will acknowledge before my Father who is in heaven, but whoever denies me before men, I also will deny before my Father who is in heaven.”
7 – I Long for Jesus to Come Again
The genuine child of God knows that one day we shall be like Jesus. Our unsaved neighbors are looking for the next great thing in fashion, celebrities, movies, games, technology, or employment. As Christians, we want to use all that God gives us for his glory, including our technology, clothing, work, and family, but our great focus is the return of Christ. That focus is so consuming that it will purify the one who hopes in his return. Very soon, we are going to see Jesus, our great God and Savior, face to face (1 John 3:1–3).
8 – I Suffer Rejection Because of My Faith
Every true Christian should expect that his new pattern of life will be rejected in some way by the world. The Apostle John says we should not be surprised.
1 John 3:13 — “Do not be surprised, brothers, that the world hates you.”
John 15:18 — “If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you.”
9 – I Love Fellow Christians
Christ himself had said earlier to the Apostle John and the other eleven disciples:
John 13:35 — “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
There are more than thirty-five commands in the New Testament for Christians to live life together and serve one another.
1 John 4:7 — “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.”
1 John 5:1 — “Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ has been born of God, and everyone who loves the Father loves whoever has been born of him.”
1 John 1:7 — “But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin.”
10 – God Answers My Prayers
One who is genuinely born again has such a union and closeness with the Lord that he is constantly breathing out prayers to God and seeing those prayers answered continually. It is God’s indwelling Spirit, the Comforter, who compels the Christian to pray instead of fret in times of great trial. We should remind ourselves often of Philippians 4:6–7:
Philippians 4:6–7 — “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
1 John 3:21–22 — “Beloved, if our heart does not condemn us, we have confidence before God; and whatever we ask we receive from him, because we keep his commandments and do what pleases him.”
Fingerprints 11–15
11 – I Discern Truth by the Bible
True believers have the God-given ability to discern when someone is teaching falsely, especially when it comes to who Jesus is and what he has done on the cross. The Bible—not feelings, trends, or what is “cool”—determines the standard of truth and practice. A person without God’s indwelling presence cannot discern the things of the Spirit of God (1 Corinthians 2:14) and is often drawn into error.
1 John 4:6 — “We are from God. Whoever knows God listens to us; whoever is not from God does not listen to us. By this we know the Spirit of truth and the spirit of error.”
12 – I Enjoy the Comfort of the Holy Spirit
1 John 4:13 — “By this we know that we abide in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit.”
It is through the Spirit of God that we can believe and repent. He gives us a new heart and a new spirit by his Spirit (Ezekiel 36:26–27). Through the Spirit, Christ’s presence is within me, and he says, “I will never leave you nor forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5). What comfort this is for the true Christian.
13 – I Trust Jesus Christ as My King
Believing Jesus means trusting him as your King to direct your every thought and action. Belief is more than intellectual understanding; it is actually surrendering to him as Christ, “the Anointed One.” To be anointed as Christ in the Bible is to be the Almighty King. As born-again people, we trust Christ as King to control and direct us. “Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ has been born of God” (1 John 5:1a).
14 – I Persevere in Victory over the World
“For everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world” (1 John 5:4). A Christian will persevere in the love of God and holiness because the Holy Spirit lives in him or her. A justified person may fall, but will keep getting up by the grace of God.
15 – I Have Assurance of My Salvation
1 John 5:13 — “I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life.”
It is one thing to believe sound doctrine, but sound doctrine is not the goal. It is the pathway to the goal, which is knowing Christ, who is eternal life. When a person has this walk with God through Christ, that person has a sweet assurance of being God’s child and having eternal life. It is just as certain as a person who grows up with a mother and father. You know God is your Father and will not forsake you. You will live with him forever.
These Fingerprints Don’t Save Us
These marks of God in our lives do not make us God’s children; they show that we are God’s children.
The children of a mother and father do nothing to gain the family likeness. Being born is a gift, and being born again into God’s family is a gift from God.
The Apostle Paul explains this in Titus 3:3–7:
Titus 3:3–7 — “For we ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, led astray, slaves to various passions and pleasures, passing our days in malice and envy, hated by others and hating one another. But when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by his grace we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life.”
Ephesians 2:8–10 — “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.”
What If I’m Not Sure?
Often in life, we are on a sort of hamster wheel: the same thing every day, with very little purpose. One day, we will have no energy left, and the hamster wheel will come to an end. None of us were meant to live merely for the hamster wheel. We were made for more than this. If we are asleep to this greater purpose, we need to be awakened.
The Apostle Paul says that those who are spiritually dead have to become alive (Ephesians 2:1–7). How does one who is “dead in sins” become “alive in Christ”? How does one who has strayed from the Lord come back to him or become a member of his family?
Remember, Salvation Is a Love Story
Before you and your spouse can have lasting and meaningful love to give to one another, you first need to receive the fullness of God’s love. God’s love is a gift that you need to receive. Jesus told us that to receive his gift of salvation, we need to repent of ignoring God and actively sinning against him, and believe that God sent his Son to die for our sins (Mark 1:15).
Christ Died for You
“God is love” (1 John 4:8), but this does not mean he lowers his standard of perfect holiness. God has provided a way to satisfy his holy nature and his righteous wrath against our sin.
1 Peter 3:18 — “For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God.”
Jesus Christ, God’s perfect Son, was crucified in your place and paid the penalty of eternal hell for you, if you will believe.
Luke 5:32 — “I have not come to call the righteous but sinners to repentance.”
Isaiah 53:6 — “All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way; and the LORD has laid on him the iniquity of us all.”
Jesus Gives Us His Perfect Record
2 Corinthians 5:21 — “For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.”
When you believe that Jesus died for your sins and took your punishment on the cross, God exchanges your record of sin for Jesus’ perfect record of righteousness. You then have a perfect record for the Day of Judgment.
God Will Make You New
When you believe in Christ, God also promises to transform you. He promises to cleanse you from your idols, give you a new heart and a new spirit, remove the heart of stone, give you a heart of flesh, and put his Spirit within you so that you walk in his statutes (Ezekiel 36:25–27). All who are part of God’s kingdom have been born again. Jesus said, “Unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God” (John 3:3).
How to Repent
Repenting to God does not mean we have to punish ourselves for our sin. To repent literally means “to have a new perspective.” If you are broken because of your sin and turn to Jesus for mercy, he will save you. Repent and turn to him. “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you” (James 4:10). Say to God, “Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight” (Psalm 51:4). Jesus says, “There is joy before the angels of God over one sinner who repents” (Luke 15:10).
Trust in Christ
John 3:36 — “Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life; whoever does not obey the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God remains on him.”
John 3:16 — “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.”
Believe that Jesus gave his precious life’s blood for you. To you, right now, “the Holy Spirit says, ‘Today, if you hear his voice, do not harden your hearts’” (Hebrews 3:7–8).
John 1:12–13 — “But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God, who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.”
Ephesians 2:8–9 — “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.”
“Let the one who is thirsty come; let the one who desires take the water of life without price” (Revelation 22:17).
Conclusion
For those who are truly born again, the fifteen marks mentioned here will begin to show up in your life. It is not that these marks are present in full maturity in the life of every believer. That is not the case. But there is some sign of each of these marks in the life of every true believer. Each person will have different degrees of these evidences, but they will all be present in one form or another.
“This life, therefore, is not righteousness but growth in righteousness, not health but healing, not being but becoming, not rest but exercise. We are not yet what we shall be, but we are growing toward it; the process is not yet finished but it is going on. This is not the end but it is the road; all does not yet gleam in glory but all is being purified.” —Martin Luther