Communication

Responsive counseling resource

Family Conflict Assignment

A focused worksheet for examining a family conflict and planning a truthful, loving, and responsible response.

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Purpose and Practice

Please write out answers to the following questions. The Scripture texts provide some basis for each question.

  • For what things about my spouse am I thankful to God? I Thess. 5:18
  • Where have I sinned against my spouse? Mt. 7:5 5:23-24
  • In what ways do I need to change? Mt. 7:5
  • In what ways would my spouse say that I need to change? Phil. 2:3-4
  • How has my spouse sinned against me? Mt. 18:15f
  • In what ways does my spouse need to change? Mt. 7:5b
  • How can I gently help my spouse to change? Gal. 6:1-2
  1. Read each of these passages and state how they apply to your current marriage situation.
  • James 4:1-2
  • James 1:19-20
  • Matthew 7:5
  • Galatians 6:1-2
  • Ephesians 5:22-33
  • Ephesians 4:32
  • Ephesians 4:29

Buy and read at least one of these books

  • “Peacemaking for Families” by Ken Sande
  • “War of Words” by Paul Tripp